SPEED DATING: Finding True Love

SPEED DATING: Finding True Love

Finding True Love

According to the English dictionary True Love is defined as: The form of romantic affection that is
considered pure and wholly positive; The unique individual for whom one feels such affection.




We all know the fairy tales from our childhood. We have all seen how much people are in love on TV. You probably
know a couple in love.
Love seems so wonderful… but why are so many people - or should I say most people - not
Finding True Love in their life?

Because they didn’t try Speed Dating!! LOL - no just kidding.

Seriously though… in today’s world
there is so much stress - we tend to feel having someone (even if we know it’s the wrong person) is better
than being alone. Or we choose someone using those stupid Love Myths.

Then we end up breaking up or going thru a divorce. And the process starts all over with the first one that
catches our eye or sparks that chemistry…just to be disappointed again.

So how do you break this cycle? Well for starters… you need to think what you want in a partner.
What is important to YOU?
Think back at past relationships - write down what you liked or miss. Then write down what you didn’t like
and what you don’t miss.
If you’ve never had a relationship - look at your friends - your parents or grandparents - make your
list from what you have observed.





Now when looking for that special someone... don’t settle for just anyone. Stick to what's on your list -
remember what is important to YOU - also keep in mind - love is a two way street.
You have to be a person that someone else wants to love and be with.



And please don’t fool yourself… There are no perfect people!! And there IS no "perfect" love. True Love
is give and take - ups and downs -
good and bad and quite frankly… quite a hard job!


Some people might say finding true love happens several times in a lifetime - others might say only
once - and there are some that say never. I say… it depends how open your heart is and how smart you are in
choosing a partner.

Are you willing to open your heart and let another in? Are you willing to work at
finding the right one?


So if you want to adventure into the world of speed dating… gather your thoughts - make a list of want’s and
don’t want’s
(either in your mind or on paper… me - I have to write every thing down!!) And come with an open heart -
open mind and ask those
questions that you really want to know. But most of all - have fun!

This is my first blog... ever! Wanted to let people know Speed Dating is available to Southern Indiana and Louisville! Hope you are as excited as I am! Speed Dating is a great way to meet someone in person.